My last day of ZEN….my last day of total relaxation and contemplation……my last day of sanity……oh well here goes….

I remember a talk I had years ago with my grandfather on marriage….NO! Not that talk….but rather what to expect……he told me there are two things to remember…..1–women marry men because they want him to change…and he does not….and 2– men marry women and hope they will not change….and they do….and that most assuredly involves sex……

Now here is a good idea? (sarcasm)

From the Newser website:

Malaysian politicians and feminists are furious about a new “Obedient Wives Club” that urges women to provide “prostitute-like” sex to avoid domestic violence and keep their husbands faithful, reports Reuters. The group, started by a group of Muslim women who also support polygamy, says women must believe in God and be hot in the sack to keep the peace. “A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray. A woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met,” Rohaya Mohamed tells the Straits Times.

So if women screw like a high paid call girl they will keep their hubby happy and the abuse will cease, is that about it?  What a crock of crap!

Of course, this has taken a hit from activists….

The proclamation has unleashed a storm of criticism. “To hinge fidelity, domestic violence, and the fulfillment of a husband’s responsibilities purely on a wife’s capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well,” said Shahrizat Jalil, the minister for Women, Family and Community Development. Added the director of rights group Sisters-in-Islam: “Abusive men often use women’s behavior as a sick justification, but in the end, their actions are their responsibility.”The proclamation has unleashed a storm of criticism. “To hinge fidelity, domestic violence, and the fulfillment of a husband’s responsibilities purely on a wife’s capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well,” said Shahrizat Jalil, the minister for Women, Family and Community Development. Added the director of rights group Sisters-in-Islam: “Abusive men often use women’s behavior as a sick justification, but in the end, their actions are their responsibility.”

The last line says it all for me.

If men would be truthful then they would admit that their “significant other” would be a lot more bearable if they had sex like a hooker….but to come out and say it in no uncertain terms is just…..well stupid!

Thoughts?