Now for something completely different….enjoy….
I always considered myself an introvert…..why?
I like solitude, do not like crowds, always curious and a non-conformist all those I thought made me a closet introvert.
I am a ‘Otrovert’….
The word literally means “to turn the other way.” While introverts turn inward and extroverts turn outward, otroverts turn… elsewhere. They’re the people who seem to lack the emotional Bluetooth that connects everyone else to the collective frequency.
You might be one as well….
• You’ve never understood why grown adults chant football songs like they’re sacred hymns
• Corporate “team-building” retreats make you fantasize about building an actual raft and rowing to another continent
• You’ve watched a thunderous standing ovation and genuinely wondered, “Was it really that good?”
• Group chats feel like being trapped in an elevator with the office enthusiasm committee
• You find yourself mystified by viral trends rather than swept up in them
Recently my granddaughter told me that I was an ‘otrovert’….at first I thought it was an insult or that meant I was a grumpy old fart….but she turn me on to a new ‘label’……
Emily Dickinson once wrote, “The soul selects her own society.” Yet for many souls, one’s position in society is not so much a choice as it is a function of where we live, what family, religion, or social class we were born into, and what ethnicity and/or race we are. Most people embrace — or at least accept — the social groups to which they have been assigned. Otroverts do not.
Otrovert is Kaminski’s classification for people who, despite being well-adjusted, struggle to belong in groups and even prefer standing separate from social collectives.
Otroverts place no trust in any group formed around an abstract idea or circumstance of birth, such as ideology, politics, race, economy, religion, and nationality, which exist only in the collective mind. For them, the idea of unquestionable devotion to a group of people linked by a set of tacit criteria agreed upon by the group’s members makes little sense, no matter how venerable that group is in the eyes of the majority.
Most humans adhere to these binding abstractions for various reasons — many of them completely valid. Membership in a group of people who share our ideology, background, or aspects of our experience creates a path for connection, which is especially appealing when other obvious routes, such as family or work, aren’t available. Such groups also provide a set of unwritten instructions about how to behave, which helps to ward off ambiguity and uncertainty, while also keeping everyone in line.
Read On….
https://bigthink.com/big-think-books/otrovert/
Just a bit more on Otroverts……
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